Update: Sunny and Mild

Just to be sure.  Some of you have actually been reading this stuff, and I am honored and thank you.  But I need to mention that although down below, it looked like my marriage was in deep trouble, that is not the case.  It was just a fight, but I included some of the details to put falling off the wagon into some context.  I was in a situatiuon that was driving me crazy, and I in turn was driving my wife crazy, and that has been remedied.  I thank the people who have contacted me with words of encouragement.